Jack has true enterprising spirit. Yesterday he "sold" the only restate he has, the top bunk of his bed. He sold Amelia the rights to sleep and hangout there with an option to put things on the walls. He sold it to her for a Gameboy thing she got for Christmas that he wanted. He even typed up a contract stating the terms of the agreement and was going to have Dan print it out at work so they could both sign it. Alas, the deal fell thru since Amelia wanted to move in before the contract was signed (although she had given him the Gameboy) and Jack said she couldn't so Amelia got all huffy and took her things back. Jack told me afterwards that he wasn't going to keep the Gameboy but send it to Maysen for her birthday since it was actually Maysen who wanted the thing in the first place. He is so sweet.
Thursday, December 31, 2020
Thursday, December 17, 2020
Jacob
Jack
This year Jack bought me a Christmas present for the first time with his own money. He is very proud of that fact. One of his teachers showed him something she made and was selling (I think she was selling it) so he typed into chat he wanted to buy it. She came by later that day or maybe the next to drop it off to him. Jack is so thoughtful. I love him so much.
Monday, December 14, 2020
Ms. Stephanie
Well Ms. Stephanie died on Wednesday, December 9th. It was expected because her cancer had spread but also because she had declined quickly over two days. On the Sunday of Jacob's birthday she invited him over for a piece of cake, a card she made for him and some birthday balloons. She told me she was sorry she didn't have a real present for him but I told her that was ok. It wasn't ok with her.
Ms. Stephanie also sent Amelia the special Advent calendar she buys her every year. The last couple of years Ms. Stephanie bought the calendar but she just downloaded it on her computer so Amelia just played it at her house. It was super sweet of Ms. Stephanie to remember the calendar at the end of her life. I have made a note on my calendar to buy one for next year.
Jack was apart the communication of her decline. Mark kept accidently texting me so Jack kept relaying me messages. He could tell by the messages that something was up. On the day she died I told the kids it would be soon. That night she passed away.
We were so lucky to have Ms. Stephanie as a neighbor. She was so great with the kids. Each of them had a special relationship with her. She was able to see each of the kids for their individual strengths and specialness. She nurtured each of them. Because of the coronavirus there has been a bit of a distance between them, obliviously for health reasons, so the kids right now can't absorb the absentness of her love. But it will come. And I pray as they get older they will remember that love. I pray that they can recognize the ease that she loved them and how they took advantage of that easy love because they were kids that received so much of it.
Thursday, December 3, 2020
Jack and Amelia
Tuesday, November 17, 2020
Jack
Jack loves playing video games. He especially loves the online server game Roblox. I am not sure what it is exactly but I do know there are tons of different games where kids get to do everyday life things, just in crazy kid ways. Like I think one of the games is pizza simulator where the kids run a pizza shop. Or a game about a shark eating people in boats. I think what Jack likes most right now is that you play it with other kids. Jacob and Amelia play to in the same room so they are always talking to each other about the games. Jack also plays with Umma. He likes to get her on FaceTime so he can talk with her and play the games with her.
I don't think Jack realizes how much his Umma loves him to play a stupid online game with him. I can only guess that 3 years ago if you asked her if she wanted to play a video she would have said "Absolutely not, video games are stupid!" But because she is such an amazing Umma she plays.
Tuesday, November 10, 2020
Jacob
Well my little Baby Jacob has caught puberty. (Jack is always saying he doesn't want to catch puberty.) Jacob is growing SO tall. He has a bit of acme, but not too much. But the real tell tale sign is that his voice is changing. Sometimes he sounds like a little kid and other time defiantly not.
I tease him that I am going to throw him a 13th birthday party with presents like pimple cream, razors, deodorant and books about his changing body. He just rolls his eyes and says no way to the presents but ok to an actual party.
Just a big sigh for my mother's heart that my little guy is growing into a man.
Friday, October 30, 2020
First Hunting Season
Jacob and Jack got to go on their first hunt! They were so excited to go. Lucky for them, they got to hunt on Kory's (Uppa's cousin's husband) family property in Dayton. Uppa called to say he was on his way to pick them up and gave me a quick list of what the needed to pack. I had no other information then that but both boys had about a dozen questions each about what was happening, where they were going, and who was going to be there.
First Uppa showed up pulling a tent trailer. We were like, where did you get the tent trailer? Turns out he bought it for hunting. Oh my what a surprise, and of course, more questions to come about how it works. While Uppa took a quick shower I headed to the store for food supplies. Prior to Uppa showing up I was trying to call Umma to see what she had already packed. She was unavailable but it worked out just fine; no one would starve. Once I got home the boys and Uppa packed up their things and were off!
The very first day Jacob got his first deer! A cute little doe. Apparently each day each boy would split up between hunting with Kory or Uppa. Jacob was with Kory that day. I can't remember who spotted the two deer but as soon as they did, Jacob said they belly crawled to a fence. Once there, Jacob set up his shot. Kory and Jacob were uphill, with the deer lower in a field. Jacob said he missed twice high but on the third shot hit the deer in the upper spine. The deer dropped where it was. Kory shot it in the head to finish it off. They then had to drag the deer quite always back to the truck.
Now Jack got his first deer on the second day. Jack got several different looks at some great deer but he wasn't either able to take a good shot or missed. Uppa and Jack snuck up on a 4 point but Jack wasn't able to get a shot in. He was really disappointed that he didn't get that deer. Later that night as the four of them were driving a couple deer jumped across the road. Who ever was driving slammed the car into park so Kory and Jack could jump out after the deer. Jack was able to shoot the deer right thru the lungs and heart, a perfect shot! The bad part was that it wasn't quite a doe, but very quickly it was made into one.
Each night the boys would call to give a report. They loved the tent trailer. I think each of the boys had to give us a tour of it. They got to eat a lot of junk food. Jack reported that lots of the guys there smoke and drank, which of course he isn't use to but was fine. Jacob told me about being charged by a bull. He had to duck under a wire fence really quick. They both told me lots about Kory and different ways he was cool. They got to ride a little motorbike around. There was a dog named Lady Bear that was super nice. It was super cold, with compact snow and ice on the road. They told us about helping some people out of the ditch and it taking forever. Jack had to tell me all about how much adrenal was pumping thru his body each time he was about to take a shot.
Uppa and the boys brought the deer back here. We hung them in the garage so the next day we sent up a table to cut up the meat. The kids did a good job, even Amelia helped cut it up. Now our freezer is full of tender deer meat.
Just in general it was a great memorable trip. Both boys said they wanted to go again.
Monday, October 19, 2020
Jacob
Can I say how easy Jacob is to parent!! Although he hasn't been 100% excited about online school, he has done a great job. He does his zoom meetings and homework. He is trying his best. His attitude is good. As a reward I have bought him some stuff I normally wouldn't. I have tried to be a little more flexible with him since he is really doing so outstanding. I keep my eye out for him and tell him he can be upset if he wants/needs to be because I don't want him overshadowed by his siblings needs. As of now though, I think he is the most grownup of the household, including me.
Jack
Dear Mom,
Please consider letting me out (of my room). Today mistakes were made. I promise to be good.
With Care, Jack Fisk
Amelia
Today Amelia showed me a kindness. I had a rough day so she decided that she would give me a spa treatment. She cut up some cucumbers, she kept calling them pickles, for me to put on my eyes. She also cut extra slices for a snack. I laid down on my bed with "pickle" slices on my eyes. She then rubbed my feet and hands with lotion. After she fed me some cucumber slices and sips of water she read to me from the Owl Dairies. It was just what I needed. I feel so loved that she would do something extra special for me. She is such a sweet girl.
Thursday, October 8, 2020
Jack
Tonight Jack told me tomorrow is going to be the best day ever! Here are his reasons:
1. No school
2. He gets to go to the Middleton Fall Festival with friends
3. He gets screen time, plus an extra 40 minutes - When he talks with his teacher during the "office hours" he gets an extra 20 minutes of screen time with a max of two teachers a week. He saved up his extra screen time for Friday.
*** I added the extra 20 minutes of screen time bonus to help entice Jack to talk with his teachers one on one. Because of the utter joke the school year is, Jack has had a hard time connecting to school, teachers and classmates. I thought at least he could get some individual time with the teachers to help make a better connection. Of course I let both of his core teachers know the plan so they have been super great about checking in with Jack academically while also exchanging some general chitchat.
Jack
This week I let the boys watch a scary movie for the first time. I found a list of PG13 scary movies that were ok for tweens, meaning not too much gore, cussing and sex. It has several levels of scary so we picked a "not so scary" movie to start. We watched the Poltergeist (1982 version). The special effects were 80's bad and the scary stuff takes a while to get going but its still a good one. There is one jump scare in the movie that got Jack pretty bad. After the movie was over Jacob said he didn't really like scary movies, he liked comedies better. Jack thought it was great and couldn't shut up about the scary parts and how he felt at each moment of the movie.
All was good, everyone went to bed; of course Jack had every light on in his room. Later in the night Jack said he had a nightmare about a tree eating him (a part in the movie) so he came into our room to sleep on the floor. He tried to pull it off as he was sleeping with Skipper but the wooden cross I found by his pillow gave him away. Lol With a big sheepish grin and twinkle in his eye, he admitted he was scared. Of course, he has since tried to convince that he thinks being scared by scary movies is fun and wants to watch another one! I said maybe, but he has several "levels" to go in our list of scary movies before he even gets to the "pro" level. Not sure what movie to have him watch next.
Saturday, October 3, 2020
Made it thru September
So September 1st was the first day of school and I can confidently say it was the hardest month ever. I congratulate myself for getting thru the month. Part of my strategy was taking a two week sub job that pushed the kids into independence. It worked for Amelia very well. She can now get her work done by herself. Now I don't know the quality of that work but hey I guess that is her teacher's problem. Jack needs another week or two of getting into the routine of daily tasks plus assignments. He is working on turning in quality 6th grade work. Jacob was good from the start. He just needs a reminder to breath at the beginning of each week because of the new load of assignments assigned to him.
This distance learning is just the worst. Kids don't have the developed self-discipline or motivation or developed skills to do this. Everyone I talk says the same thing about this being so hard and stressful. I just wonder what the kids will remember about this time when they are older. I know for sure that I am so grateful to Umma and Upppa; spending time with them has really been a Godsent for the mental and emotional health of the kids.
Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Amelia
Well Amelia's school year is going like crap (that's the nice version of what I think its going). Her computer has worked one day out of the last 5. She literally lays on the ground and throws a fit about school work, her computer or anything related to school. She was nervous about starting the year off at a new school with new kids so throw that on top and you have a childhood trauma event that we are reliving every day there is school. I am trying really really hard to help her thru this. Last spring she threw fits after she had to do work from school. Anything new or challenging made her scream and cry. She is now doing the same thing. For every assignment she completes she cries for at least 15 minutes, either before, during, after or a combination of all three. At home learning is a joke for her. She needs in person interaction. She needs other kids to play with. She needs a place where other adults can help her. She needs a place where she can be helpful to others.
Thursday, September 3, 2020
2020-2021 School Year
Friday, August 21, 2020
Jack's Summer Journal
Date: 6/1/20
Gratitude
List: I am da grateful for my new gun in zombie rush because I had to kill
about 100 zombies to get it.
Prayer:
Dear god, Please let me get the new gun in zombie rush today.
I am very proud because… I got a new
gun in zombie rush. The gun is super cool it has a purple barrel and a crom
body. It took me twenty minutes to get witch is long to me.
Date:6/10/20
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for silver wood staying open because we are going tomorrow.
Prayer:
dear god thank you for skipper since he is so cute and playful.
What
is your favorite room in your home and why? My favorite room is the house is
the living room. I think it’s the best since it has the Xbox that I play games
on. The fire place because it keeps me warm in the winter. Finally, because it’s
where my family sits and we all watch tv together.
Date:
6/24/20
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for my loving family and my new Lego set
Prayer:
Dear god, thank you for my new Lego set and my loving family
What
is your favorite time of day? My favorite time of day is morning because it is
when I get the most screen time. Another reason is it is when I get the whole
down stairs to myself. There is no sound silence and that’s hard to get these
days.
Date:
6/25/20
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for skipper being super good on are walk
Prayer:
thank you god, for skipper, two rivers, and that pool that I can’t remember the
name of oh yah Hermiston pool.
Describe your best day ever? My best day ever was when I woke up to mom and dad taking us to Disney land. It was about 4:00 am and I woke up as usual but then I heard the blow drier and I was like but dad doesn’t have any hair so I got up any way and went to dads bath room to see my mom and now I am really confused then mom said get dressed and go down stairs and that’s where I learn that we were going to Disney land.
Date:
6/29/20
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for, bill gates, mike birthday, and amazon.
Prayer:
Dear God please help Mike have a good B day.
What is your favorite song and why? My favorite song is “I’m a Banana.” It is a funny song. It can get girls to flip me off, that’s funny. It can also get girls to say I like your moves.
Date:
6/30/20
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for mom taking us to get white man fire works and the 4 of
July.
Prayer:
thank you god for everything that I have.
I want to be a gangster when I grow up. Then I will…. Ride the rails illegally. Next I will beg on the streets. Finally, I will rob banks and mug people walking by.
Date:7/15/20
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for Jacob, mom, dad, robin, skipper, tater tot, and
princess.
Prayer:
thank you god for Minecraft, Roblox, and YouTube.
I
wish I could go to Disney world because…. one it’s a no brainer I mean who
would not what to go. Two, I have been to Disney land, but I have never gone to
Disney world. Three, you can swim with sharks and that’s cool right.
Date:
7/17/20
Gratitude
List: I am thankful for tiny tanks, mad city, and death run.
Prayer:
thank you god for tiny tanks, md city, and death run
Older
people are… are wiser because they have had more experience. They also been
alive longer, so they see more stuff. Finally, they have been in more fights,
so they know how to defend in more ways.
Date:
7/20/20
Gratitude
List: I am thankful for tubing with Sam, Sawyer, Kris, Mark, and today
hopefully oldie.
Prayer:
thank you god for Mrs. Stephanie for her kind family and their boat.
Younger
people are… dumber because we have less experience then old people. Also, they
have done more stupid things than smart. Finally, they have been in less
fights, so they don’t know how defend them self.
Jacob's Summer Journal
Date:
6/5/2020
Gratitude
List: I am thankful for skipper and how he walked well on our walk today.
Prayer:
Dear god thank for our blessings, watch over us as we go to Silverwood in 6
days and make Silverwood come sooner.
Name
one thing you do well: One thing I am good at is baseball. I am good baseball
because I can hit far, when I do hit the ball which is very hard. Another thing
I am good at in baseball is left field and when the ball comes to me I will
catch it. Finally, the last I am good at is supporting my team, I yell at them
to hit the ball with a funny nickname.
Date:6/8/2020
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for my house and that it keeps me dry.
Prayer:
dear god thank you for our blessing. Thank you for my bed and that it is warm
at night. Finally, help my mom learn how to become a better mom.
What
is your favorite room in your home and why: My favorite room in my house is my
room. I like my room the most because its my quite space and I can watch
YouTube there. The other reason I like my room is I sleep there, and I love
sleep. Finally, I love my room because it is a good storage space for my toys.
Date: 6/9/2020
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for getting the stupid piece of bacon out of my teeth.
Prayer:
dear god thank you for our blessings thank you for skipper and his new toys.
Thank you for screen time each day.
Describe
what it means to be a good neighbor: What it means to be a good neighbor is to
be kind to everyone. You can pray for them when they need it most. You can help
them out by getting their mail, mowing their lawn, and just helping them.
Finally you can make them a cake or other types of food. But most of all is
that everyone is your neighbor, from next door to the other side of the world.
Date:
7/8/2020
Gratitude
List: I am thankful for my mom because she is the best mom.
Prayer:
dear god thank you for my blessings thank you for mom and how she takes care of
skipper.
Older
people are ok. Older people are ok because sometimes they can be mean or
sometimes they cane be good. One example of this is my mom because she makes me
type every week day. But she is a good mom.
date: 7/9/2020
Gratitude
List: I am thankful for Josh and Beth coming over.
Prayer:
dear god thank you for our blessings thank you for skipper and let Josh and
Beth have safe travels.
Younger
people are the best. Younger people are the best because they are cool and
funny. One example of this is Jack because he can sometimes be funny. Amelia is
cool because she dose not annoy me.
Date:
7/20/2020
Gratitude
List: I am grateful for tubing with Sam and Sawyer.
Prayer:
dear god please let Umma and Uppa have safe travels.
The
perfect place in the whole wide world is at home. This is because my family is at
home. Also, that is where my money is and my phone. Another reason I like home
is because I have good neighbors.
Friday, August 14, 2020
Amelia's Summer Journal
Part of the kids' summer work this summer was a journal. Here are some highlights of Amelia's that I enjoyed.
8/5/2020
Gratitude List: the earth, art and good people
Prayer: Dear God please make a lot of people happy.
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
At my house. I have a lot of friends. It is really good weather. I have nice neighbors.
8/4/2020
Gratitude List: life on earth and school
Prayer: Dear God please help me get Prodigy
If you could give any gift in the world, what would you give and to whom?
I would give them a Nintendo Switch. I would send it to Trevor.
7/10/2020
Gratitude List: food and water
Prayer: Dear God please make Jack's doctor be nice
The house was so quiet, but then I heard....
I heard a scratching. It sounded like something was trapped. We opened every door in the house. We opened the last door........... It was MY CAT!
7/11/2020
Gratitude List: my bed and toys
Prayer: Dear God please make Skipper have a good sleep.
If you could have been someone in history, who would you have been?
I would have been.... Jesus! I want to show people how good God is. I want to teach people about God. I want to heal people.
6/9/2020
Gratitude List: my mom and dad
Describe what it means to be a good neighbor.
First to be a good neighbor is to be friends. Second you invite them over. Third you talk to them a lot. That is how to be a good neighbor.
Tuesday, August 11, 2020
Summer Trip
We did a week long vacation in two parts, well three for the kids.
Part 1: The kids got picked up by Umma and Uppa for a week of fun with them. The boys went backpacking. Amelia just hangout with Umma.
Part 2: Dan, Moana and I showed up on Sunday night for the next part of the trip. We headed out to Ocean Shores to stay in Linda's beach house. It was a nice time. The weather was sunny with a slow breeze. We played on the beach, played board games (a Christmas present from Grandma Linda we got then), drew pictures and watched movies. One day we went miniature golfing and go-karting. All the usual fun of a beach trip. On unusual thing about the trip was there was a dead whale right on the beach in front of Linda's house. Boy could you smell it when you walked down! But once we moved down the beach a bit the wind took the smell away. The tide would wash all the intestines and chucks of whale all up and down the beach. Gross but cool.
Part 3:
Once we got back from the ocean we did wash, got some more groceries and packed back up for a camping weekend at Holly. Umma, Uppa, Shannon, Gary and Josh's family was there. We had great weather. The kids went kayaking and swimming. This year Uppa brought his 4 wheeler up so the boys took turns riding on that. Gary brought his side by side to ride in so we all got trips in that. I think the kids ate chips and cookies the whole weekend so of course they enjoyed that.
*** Because Jacob wanted to bring his go-kart to ride at Holly we rented a small tow behind trailer to haul it with. Jacob didn't end up riding it much but it gave him and Uppa something to work on the week he was there. The trailer worked out great to pack things in so we had plenty of room. And because we had the trailer we invited Moana to come along since we now had an extra seat. When I got to Umma's the kids were excited to see her and Skipper.
Backpacking - Jacob and Jack
The boys got their first experience backpacking this summer. Uppa and Umma came and picked up all the kids but just the boys and Uppa went hiking with Josh's family. They did an easy hike into a campground that had the road washed out. All went well expect that Jack and Burton's tent didn't have a rain fly so when it rained that night they got soaked! Also Jack and Jacob's packs were heavy, 20 lbs or so, and Jacob's pack didn't fit right. Despite the challenges they had fun.
Tuesday, July 21, 2020
Tubing
Jacob and Sawyer especially have become fast friends. They have worked together, played, hung out, just be buddies. Actually Jacob was upset about the fact that after today he probably wouldn't see Sawyer anymore. I know, so I hope Jacob can know some day, that God puts people in our lives for a purpose. Even if it is for a brief time, there was a reason these two friends had each other. I pray they can stay in touch, maybe thru text, but I pray more that Jacob will carry the value of his time and friendship with Sawyer as a building block for other relationships.
Saturday, July 18, 2020
Jack
Tuesday, July 14, 2020
Summer
4th of July
At night Jack got to light off his fireworks. He had SO much fun lighting them all. He said it was the best 4th of July of his life since he got to light off his own fireworks. Maybe next year we can get some good Native fireworks he can light!
Friday, June 26, 2020
Jack
Jack is a charismatic, caring young boy. He likes to play video games, watch YouTube, ride bikes and talk. Jack is a very vocal processors. I pray that as an adult his fierce sense of justice and caring will impact his world and the rest of the world for good. I pray that Dan and I can guide him to become effective in communicating his feelings and actions in a positive way.
Amelia
Amelia is a spunky, fun loving girl. She likes books, Barbies and fashion. She makes friends easily and can play with just about anyone. I pray she continues to grow her into a confident, compassion girl.
Tuesday, June 9, 2020
Jacob
Sunday, June 7, 2020
Jack
Wednesday, May 20, 2020
Mother's Day
And of course the best part of the Mother's Day is there was very little whiny, arguing and talking. Yay!
Wednesday, May 13, 2020
Electric Moped
Now I have to say watching them speed along on this moped scares me a little. I am sure one of them is going to break a bone riding it or get hit by a car by the end of the summer. But they enjoy it and always wear a helmet so I will just pray hard and let God take care of the rest!
Wednesday, May 6, 2020
Fun Activities
- We got the badminton set from Myrna since she was cleaning out her garage. It was a lucky score for us.
- And rolling on a wine barrel. We got a barrel from our other neighbor Adrian for a storage container. Before we cut it in half the kids spent several days rolling around on it like a circus performer. They were kinda mad we cut it.
Go Kart
Between Jacob and Jack pooling their money together they are in the process of getting this go-kart to run. The thing needs a chain guard and new tires to run but together with Dad they are learning about changing the oil and all the other parts of. Despite the obversion all three boys now have about finding parts and plans for the go-kart it is cool to see them have something to do that they enjoy doing together.
Wednesday, April 8, 2020
Jacob
What do you think is worse the Spanish flu or COVID-19? Well this is going to answer questions about both and maybe you will change your mind. First, we will talk a little about both of their time periods or when they came into play and how that effected the spread of them. Second, I will talk about how much of the population effected. Next, I will tell you about how humans tried to stop it. Finally, I will speak about the outlook to the future of both viruses.
Finally, I have given you some information on both viruses. First, you learned about the time periods of both viruses. Second, we talked about the population affected by both viruses Then, you learned how humans tried to stop them. Next, I told you about the future of both viruses. I hope you made your decision on which is worse, I think it will be the Spanish flu but the COVID-19 is still going on so you never know.
Center for Disease Control and Prevention. (2020, March 23). History of 1918 Flu Pandemic. https://www.cdc.gov/flu/pandemic-resources/1918-commemoration/1918-pandemic-history.htm
Jack
Polio vs covid-19
Have you ever wondered who would win polio or covid-19? Well I am here to tell you who would win. For an Opening I will tell you about the population affected and what the symptoms are. Next, I will tell you about the human response. Finally, I will tell you about the outlook of the diseases.
Saturday, April 4, 2020
Coronavirus
March Re-cap
Jacob:
Jacob received the "responsible" award from school. His basketball team also won the 5/6th Grade Upward basketball championship! He did great this season, really trying his best each game. It was very exciting to win together as mom/coach and player/son. It is his last year he can play Upward so what an amazing way to finish!
Jack's team wrapped up their Destination Imagination challenge. I wasn't able to watch it since I was coaching Jacob's game but Dad videoed it for me. The kids struggled right up until the week of the presentation but pulled it together at the last minute. The presentation was the best that they had done so far. Unfortunately for the instant challenge they totally bombed! So they ended up getting 7th place. Which kinda sucks since their presentation was way better then they team that got second, but that is how it goes.
Jack also took part in the school talent show for the last time. He did great during rehearsals but totally choked at both the day and evening performances. It was pretty hard to watch but I am proud of the fact he got up there and tried.
Amelia:
Amelia received another SOAR award at school. She got the responsible award from the librarian. I think that is even better then the one from her classroom teacher because the librarian has the whole school to choose from! So we are super proud of her.
She also participated in the school talent show. She proudly and wonderfully sang the National Anthem at the beginning of the day and evening shows. She knew all the words to the song and she sang into the microphone very well. Plus she looked adorable in her dress.